Hi Vanillia. Olive branch is still in the bud stage. I don't think EXW is ready or willing to come home. She is adjusting to her new life and maybe the anti Ds will help with this.
Im at the point of removing EXW from my payroll. This will increase my revenue outgoings but another step towards total seperation
I have a solicitiors letter ready to go and it basically list my requests re kids and home
I have told EXW that I might need to sell the home as it's quite large and on an acre with takes a fair amount of maintenance. EXW has refused even though she would get 50 % of a decent profit. If it came to it I would have to walk away from the property and let it be repossessed .
bit lost tonight Vaniilia I love EXW and don't see an end to this. I DB and act as if I am friendly but don't pursue. Nothing seems to be changing other than anti Ds seem to be helping in her R with kids. Tomorrows another day
