Not feeling so resilient asitis. Do you feel that there is any connection between your illness/treatment that contributed to your W's issues with you. My wife is not a caregiver on any level and I knew that I was in trouble with her even though she stated that we had worked everything out and that we were fine and her therapist told her that I had said all of the right things. When treatment got tough she just checked out. I have also learned that OM was contacting her at that point.
M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.