Awesome 4. As a man I can tell you the most powerful force is approval. I think we guys are ultimately like dogs in that we just want to make our women happy and be approved of. When we get to the point where we don't know how to do that anymore we start getting frustrated, discouraged, lost, and defeated. I can see how breaking the cycle of scorn leading to behavior that is scornful is a big step. Most importantly it is growth for you. You can't control his half of the dance, but this is all about you dancing better on your half. Keep posting and keep going.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
