I care what my kids think and about doing the right thing for my family. I care less, much less, what my wife thinks. Since we are all connected by default we are all part of the game like it or not, we are playing whether we like it, admit it or not. That is my point and I think what TDK's point is as well.


M: 48
W: 45
Married: 16 years
D1-14, D2-11, D3-9
BD: May 29
She moved out 2 weeks later with kids
Awaiting mediation