Today she texted me and told me I need to go to Verizon and sign off on a new phone account. She got herself her own account. She also asked me if I can afford our house by myself. She wants me to keep the house. I am in favor of keeping the house for stability of my kids. It is a great neighborhood and we have lived here for 8 years. The kids want to stay in the house as well. She is on the fast track to divorce. She said we will split custody 50/50, no child supoort, no lawyers, split assets. My mom thinks I should get this done while she is agreeable. I found out she has contacted lawyers when I saw the phone log. My brother and BFF were both taken to the cleaners and fought and fought with lawyers. I don't want a divorce. But, she does. It takes two to marry and only one to divorce, unfortunately. Any advice is appreciated. I feel like if I don't let her have what she wants, I will be made to suffer more.
