I digress, even in the ideal world we are going to have attractions, "oh Liam, wherefore art thou Liam?" . They can't arrest you for thoughts and wishes, we can't beat ourselves up for it. Plus it's unrealistic not to expect this. This isn't an EA, sadly Liam hasn't a clue who I am.
I remember being taken aback when someone I worked with (single and Yummie) snogged me when he was drunk once Xmas under the mistletoe. V was very surprised by this, especially when he told the whole assembled room that I was his ideal woman. He was very drunk and I did get an apology, a couple of days later. I wasn't interested in this guy, but I still felt guilty.
Much more sinister was a salesman who visited my company who decided I was going to be the girl for him. Would not go away. He was creepy drawers, eventually he moved on to someone else.
I have over the years had tiny crushes, it adds frisson to life and it's ok, just no actions. Mainly unsuitables.
No partner can fulfill all desires, or meet all expectations, they have their own life to live.
V
Last edited by Vanilla; 08/23/1505:21 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
