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Your 100 % right about not bding. Today is a new start. I'm going to start rereading the book I left half way. I'll think of a new name to change depress to.


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Formally known as depress. New name overcome is because I believe I will overcome this storm God is by my side! !!


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Good for you Depress - new name and finishing the book are two good first steps. Remember, you're in control of you here!

If it's of interest - 25yearsMLC just posted a great post on GAL on Anna25s thread in Infidelity....may be worth a read.

Good luck with things - I'm so pleased to see Overcome emerging....phoenix-like from the ashes...xx


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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
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You are going to be ok. You will overcome this storm! I spent a whole month listening to the Casting Crowns- Just Be Held, then I switched to I'll Praise you in this Storm, and it helped so much.

I will pray for you, and please keep posting, you are not alone. You are also setting a good example for your children.



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Thanks for your support.

Today I already have accomplished one goal which was to cook breakfast with kids without getting mad.


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I love that song...


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How do I find it. I suck at finding threads


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So is there any hope of reconciliation after a divorce??? I read there's a chance to reconcile. UT I'm so scared hell marry her.


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There is always hope Overcome - as long as there is still love in your heart. But this isn't the time to worry about 'us.' This is the time to focus on yourself, so try and let that fear go and move forward with next steps.....finish book.....goals....GAL....xx


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D final 5.16 (H filed)

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Today I accomplished 2 goals. One spend time with kids with out phone and smoking. And 2nd I didn't call him text or go by the restaurant. ..
I even dressed up today and put makeup on. My night goal is to try and not cry.
I AM STRONG I CAN DO THIS ALONE....


Me 34 H 33
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BD Jan 2015 EA/PA
He moved out 2/2/2015
Came back 5/2015
Filed divorce papers 8/21/2015
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