Azzork, I have no idea how to keep this together!!! She doesn't want me. She has OM. She is separated now.
Yep. You're right. Typical affairs last 6-9 months. So buckle up.
Originally Posted By: EricT
Do I go dark? I won't be texting or calling her. I will stay busy with the kids.
Yes and no. There's only so dark you can go. No matter what, you still have to co-parent. She could be sleeping with 10 OM right now, but she is still the mother of your children. Are you going to not allow her in to parent teacher conferences? Are you not going to talk with her if S needs braces? So you don't have to be friends, but should be friendly. Like a business associate. Or a friendly neighbor.
Originally Posted By: EricT
The strangest thing happened thus am. W texted me "is it OK if I come get the kids today?". Wow, that sentence hurts. Is it ok? I said of course. I told her I was going riding with son at local Mx track this am. She then asked if she could come get d:13. I said she is awake. Get a hold of her. I was short and cold I guess. Or should I be warm and fuzzy?
You need to figure out a schedule. You're going to plan things based on whether or not you have the kids. You need to make sure you have the same expectations.
Originally Posted By: EricT
I just don't know what to do. I don't want a divorce. But, she does.
Yep. So start back over with the homework. Detach, GAL,180s, etc.
