Damn. I know it's hard. But I wish you'd have posted here before confronting. I made the same mistake and confronted my W every time I found some evidence of betrayal and all it did was make her go more underground with her A. The dynamics change so much once it's out in the open and it's important that you have good guidance navigating it. Anyway, I think it's good that you know: Intel is important. Now that you know and now that SHE knows you know, there's no point in snooping any more.
