I know going dark means no snooping on facebook and such. I got a notice a couple of days ago on my facebook page that my wife had changed her profile picture. I looked on my notification. It was a picture of the 2 of us. Which made me feel.......good I guess. But I went to her facebook page and it was still her old one of her and a friend. So of course all these thoughts go thru my mind. Was it a good sign? Was it just an accidental thing. Was she going to crop me out of that picture and use it as her profile. I could wonder till my brain falls out of what it meant if anything. I'm sure we all wonder about what the spouse is thinking. Hoping that they are at least thinking of you 1/2 as much as you are thinking of them.