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[Sotto]

Hi GG, I think the answer is to take things at your own pace. When we are in the infatuation phase of falling in love isn't the time to make big decisions about whether we want to be with someone. It is best to let that love mature and settle first.

Also, I think it is important to look after yourself, your own interests and assets first - so that you don't even have the fear of losing them to someone else. I'm not sure that I would enter wholesale into M now and risk losing assets to someone else, particularly if they have few assets and I have many. But maybe I'm still a little raw.

In your sitch, I think it is worth thinking about. And the job sitch is a concern perhaps? Maybe wait and see how things settle on that front? Has your BF actually moved in now? Good to hear that winter is drawing to a close and spring is on the way for you guys!!

Take care, Sotto xx