^^^^^^ Forgot to mention she was at work and I was at home during this. So, I am now upset and break more rules. I snoop through her stuff and find a hand written note on a jewelry store envelope - "I WILL BE buying you more of this! Love Tom"
So, now I am even more upset. I stayed up all night and went through the cell records and tried to figure out the numbers I didn't recognize, besides Toms. I find two different lawyer offices. And a non-profit organization designed to help single women. I confronted her with the letter and cell log in the am. It was an angry conversation on my part, ending with her packing two large suitcases and leaving for her moms house. I am now aware of OM and have a separated wife. Talk of divorce is upon us. Was not a good day.
