I found out last night that my wife at the very minimum has been having an emotional affair. And I know the person she has been having the RA with. I got a message from my cell phone provider that I had been dropped as count manager for our 5 accounts. I called cell carrier and learned that my W called and changed this. I wondered why and started reading up on Google. It is because the account manager can look at call and text logs (incoming and outgoing). I told them I have always been manager and I pay the bill. Not sure why they let her change that. After some talk, they change me back to manager. I'm sure she got an email alerting her. I immediately get on my computer and pull up the logs to see what she was hiding (broke the rule of snooping, I know). I had never looked at logs. The thought had never occurred to me. Ilogs reveal over 10,500 texts between the two in a two month span. I only made it to about June and access denied (she must have called as soon as she got the message from carrier and got me locked out as manager again). I saved both files. And I looked at what information I had. It was clear. A lot of pic/vid files. Every few minutes; 24/7. Obsessive compulsive type texting. Not very many calls. On my birthday, there were 175 received messages and 153 outgoing messages from this guy. And it looked like thus everyday clear back to June. No wonder she didn't want to work on anything. She has OM.
