Your sitch sounds a lot like mine. Have a read. One thing I learned (way too late mind you) is you cannot win no matter what you do. If you do fix your wifes car you are pandering her or sucking up; if you don't fix your wifes car you are a bad guy for not fixing your wifes car. My sitch - I had plans to drive my family to the airport for a one month Euro vacation (that I am paying for). Wife said the day before when I called to confirm what time to pick them up that her mom was driving everyone and that I didn't need to go. I insisted that I would drive myself to the airport to see them off. Of course if I didn't do that I would be a bad guy for not taking the time to see them off. I probably am a bad guy for not driving them as well. See? You CANNOT win. That should be Sandi2's rule # 38
Last edited by duke; 08/23/1504:08 AM.
M: 48 W: 45 Married: 16 years D1-14, D2-11, D3-9 BD: May 29 She moved out 2 weeks later with kids Awaiting mediation
