I am learning that I need to shut up about the affair. He is 500 miles away and it is a texting thing. She has seen him im sure when she visits her mom. I thought that part of 180 was to show that I am moving on. I am committed to the marriage. I have lost about 35 pounds and I need to drop about 10 more but I would like another 15 to 20. I need to work on my attitude. I get so frustrated. I have just been being very polite to her. Ive asked her to go shopping with me and my daughter knowing she would say no but I asked anyway. She still may move back to her mom's but I really don't believe she will be happy. I have seen evidence that her EA has pushed her away so hopefully that will help some.
