Hi Rysin, I don't think she is an apple with a rotten core. What I think is that she may be struggling with the stigma and the shame of having had an A, with having to tell her parents that. Also, I think with your W there was a fear of a possible betrayal from you. And it sounded to me that, at times, she had almost convinced herself that you had been intimate with other(s) even though it wasnt the case.

I think you are right in that she may be clinging to this to justify her actions. Whilst it's hard, if you can find compassion within yourself I think that is the best thing. Where she is, isn't a nice place to be.

I'm not saying what she is doing is right of course - but just trying to offer another perspective on it.

Take care, and have a good weekend x

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T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus