Ok, I'm going to pickup my boys (9,6,2) and they will be staying the night.

something inside of me is telling myself to tell my wife that if she needs to go ahead and come to my house and stay over.

(she already said she wasn't going to...inappropriate and send wrong signal to kids)

The reason inside me feels for her cause she has never been without all/any of the kids ever, even for a day.

Should I let her feel the pain and not extend the invitation?