If she won't listen to her son & husband, she isn't going to listen to you. She's bought into whatever your W is selling. Tough call. Does her gossiping have any real impact on you? I mean, if you were D already, would it matter? Or would it just be spiteful gossip to people who aren't apart of your life? Personally, if I was holding on to a R with my H, I would set the record straight as best I could. If R wasn't a possibility, I'd shake it off & only speak to it if directly asked/accused. That's just me.
M: 43 H: 40 M: 18y S17,D13 D12 IC 11/2014 BD 4/16/15 H home 6/25/15 OW2 EA 6/26/15 MC started 7/22/15 Baby stepping....