Arrival to NC.

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Hi Rysin - ouch! Can I ask how you found out please? I personally would call her on that one - along the lies of....

I have heard that your M believes our M ended because I was unfaithful. I do hope you haven't lied to your family about this. That would be disrespectful and inappropriate. If you have, please know that I won't lie to them about why our M has ended, so I suggest you set the record straight.

I think this doesn't say you will tell them - but that you may....but do let vets chime in first..

Are you sure this is what she has actually told them though if you are hearing it third hand? In my H's case - he 'assumed' his parents 'knew' he had an A and he didn't tell them at first. It was only once I told him he needed to be honest about what had happened (they were being very cool with me) that he did (as far as I know anyway!) tell them.