IDK 2B....Based on your H this last year, I think he will address your anniversary one way or another...
I know your feelings have changed but obviously you care about this day otherwise you wouldn't be worried about it. So, I am not a card person, but if that is something you normally do, then I think having one on hand is a great idea. H and I don't do cards but would instead make a favorite dessert, like brownies, or get a favorite wine, or I would get H his favorite candy....something simple but thoughtful.
Make it your day, plan one of your favorite meals to make that way it is special for you no matter what. Plan something nice for YOU, keep expectations aT zero, and see what happens. Just my 2 cents.
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-