You don't make progress without mistakes. The theory is you keep doing what works and don't do what doesn't. You're allowed to go backwards, as such. W will talk in absolute negatives. Remember the 0/50 rule from sandi2's list? Re-read as required.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015