Need advice
I really dont want to get a anniversary card for H. I DONT know if he will this year or not, I planned to have a card in case he did. But now I dont want to get a card or just in case gift.
I dont want to even pretend to celebrate that day....why even acknowledge it when H is still not wearing his ring, still whatever he is.
Then on the other hand, I wonder how he would feel if he got me something and I dont do the same...then I think oh well...so what.
What do u guys think, anniversary is tuesday.


Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW