A - Different concept I know, but It is exactly what he means. I encourage you to read the book and then we can talk.
He discusses why this is useful and how by not thinking this way be get stuck in a cycle of waiting for someone to change or how we then relate to ourself as the victim.
This is not the same but very close to MWDs ideas on it takes one to tango.
Sorry for the hijack lost.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
