Thank you for the advice and yes I see your point in validating now. I am not expecting a miricle recovery at this point and am not thinking that now his thoughts will be toward me . He may consider dating others too at this point I dont know where I fit in the puzzle.

Practicing patience.

Married 1991
D 32 GD 12
D 30 GD 3
S 29
M 58
S 57
1st bomb 2008
2nd bomb 4/2015 same person
New bomb 09/24
I fear those big words which make us so unhappy.