I left some things out of the story. First off her car is the same car that take my kids to school everymorning. Maybe I'm wrong here but I feel it's my duty as a father to make sure they have reliable transportation. Second, once she had the car home and saw that she couldn't fix it, she asked for help.
As far as the fight, she kept bringing up the past. Saying she's been alone for ten years and that divorce wouldn't be any different. Again, maybe I'm wrong but I'm tired of being painted as someone I was not. I told her that I was sorry she felt that way but it was not fair to continue to say these sorts of things.
Then she said she was trying to keep a stable home for our kids. This blew my mind and yes I got pretty angry. I said, you want a stable home and a divorce? This didn't make sence to me.
So i know i didn't handle the situation correctly. Im just feel tired of being accused of being someone I'm not. I have owned my mistakes. I wish she would stop bringing them back up.
M:39 W:40 S:10 S:7 D:12 BD:3/5/15 Separate BR:3/5/15 W moved out with kids 1/3/16