Depress, sorry to hear this. I also got D papers recently...I haven't tried coaching, but so many people recommend it and I would give it a go.

Now H has filed for D, I don't plan to initiate contact. Thus far I get a 'contact itch' which I scratch every month or so. But I plan to draw back from that to give myself more time and space to move forward. It's different when you have kids of course.

Putting your H to one side - because of course you have no control over him and 100% over yourself. What are you doing to move forward here? How are you GAL and working on detachment? Your posts seem all about you in relation to HIM.....and I'd love to see them being more about YOU..

Take care D. D papers are by no means the end of the road....xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus