Hi Rysin - my guess is that she wants to keep a connecting thread there. I think it's up to you whether that's what you want, given she's with OM and you're moving forward with your own life.

I would say as a minimum, only offer back 75% of what she gives you, and keep the responses on a DB basis like yours above. Also, if it starts messing with your detachment, review whether it's what you want perhaps?

Above all, I would give it very little headspace and really move forward with GAL and new plans in your new location.

Best of luck Rysin xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus