Frankly, what others think is down to them. We can't mind read each will have their own view point.

They may not even voice initially. Be friendly, no obsequious behaviour or words, thankful for grandparenting, grateful for involvement. Show up as the best caring dad you can be. It's enough. They can think as they will.

The truth will out anyway.

Be still, enjoy your children.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW