E, I must have missed something somewhere. So, your H is still living at home and is having A? Is it EA or PA? And he takes your S around her? Have you set boundaries around the later?
There are so many threads to follow that it is easy to start getting sitchs confused!
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015