Thanks for the support everyone. It does help. Last night my H asked if I wanted him to take our S out for the day so I could get some work done. Sounds nice, but I'm beginning to catch on that whenever he says something like this, he will be meeting up with the OW and will let my S tell me later. I told him that it would be very helpful but that I would like to know what the plans were as our S was involved. He said he was just taking him out for the day. I asked, "with ...?" And he said yes.

So yes I'll get work done, but I'll be thinking of them. I had so little time with my boy this week, and now some other lady is getting my time. This stinks.

Clinking my glasses with you Zephyr, PP, and Lonelee! We will get through tonight.

PP I tried your mantra last night and it helped, thanks.

Azzork, it is so hard to sit back and do nothing after awhile, but I know you are right.


M 46 / H 43
T 24/M 18
S 4
11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY
1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom
1/8/2016 H moved out