tkdmme maybe you should keep an eye out for another project. Between the kids, music and maybe a project you will be plenty busy.
Something I am starting to do is let go of, relinquish control of my marital situation. I am going to go with the flow. Which is no where right now. So I will simply wait patiently for a new moment.
How does your spouse's unhappiness manifest itself to you? I get silence, ignored, avoided and she sits alone on her bed.
