Really clear post. It definitely gives me something to chew on. I feel a lot of discomfort in it, and if I was closer to the situation I wouldn't hesitate, but his Fiance lives in Norway. When I became aware of the EA prior to it becoming fully PA I looked him up on facebook and found her as well. I'll have to give that one some time to think through. I'm in so much pain and everything in my life is crazy. I don't know if I have the strength to go through it. You have certainly challenged me. You are a man with a lot of character, and I value you taking the time to hold me accountable to doing what is right.
I would encourage you to contact her, too. If the roles were reversed, wouldn't you want to know? This poor woman is having her life turned upside down, and she doesn't even know it. Please let her know so that she can protect herself. It will also have the side effect of driving a wedge between your wife and the OM, but that is not the reason to do it.
M 16 T 17 W moved in w/ AP (OW) 5/14 ILYBNIL 5/14 A discovered 6/14 D papers served via USPS 8/14 Filed my response 9/14 D final 5/15...
