wishing, I'm so glad you returned today to post. Time flies by so quickly and when we are enjoying life, it flies by even faster. I'm happy to read that things are going well w/you and your BF. You are seeing what a real relationship entails. I guess the children are getting ready to return to school soon. How is your son doing? Are things any between him and his father?
I'm sorry that your xh is going off the rails even more so than before. Step way back and allow him to splash around in the barrel. Hopefully, one day, he'll hit bottom and come to realize what he had and lost.
Take care of yourself and I'm very happy that life is so much better for you now.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.