I sent the text after I found out about the A, but before we started MC and piecing. I think I also told her that she would be named as a party in the at-fault D that I would file for. Yeah, I was mad. grin

There may be laws even in a no fault state that impacts the division of property if the divorce is due to an A.

I think your H is coming up with a lot of bogus 'reasons' to justify his actions and take the spotlight off himself. Marriage is about adapting and negotiating, not holding on to silent grudges.

H and I were talking about the website - their slogan is 'Life is short. Have an affair.' It's disgusting. And it's exactly what H said to me... 'Life is short, I want to have some fun.'

Oh, OW hasn't closed down her FB-page - that must be someone else? On the contrary, she has been very active lately, with lots of self-improvement posts and some really hideous selfies! I checked a few weeks back when I was suspicious of H and if he was in touch with her again.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17