I'm finally getting around to catching up on some of you wonderful friends who are always so quick to offer your support to me. Your whole last paragraph above really resonated with me. I was hit with so many changes because of D that after D, I wasn't looking for any huge changes. I was divorced by someone else's choice, moved out of my house by someone else's choice and had to start from scratch in life by someone else's choice.

Moving forward, I just want to settle and find me, so I know exactly where you are coming from about being able to do things and thinking about dating but being in no rush. I am glad you plan to stick around the forum. You ALWAYS have great advice, great support and great comments.

Sending positive vibes your way always. smile


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids