So, the D support group is a different thing to what I talked to Relate about. With them I was hoping to set up an infidelity support group. And they seemed quite interested, but haven't come back to move that forward.
This one is Divorce Recovery Workshop. If you google that it will take you straight to their site. It's a national charity and local groups run the workshops. You go to 6 x 2hr workshops - one evening a week for six weeks with some homework inbetween. The group I'm joining has a bit of a social scene going on. They have run 20 workshops over the past 10 years, each with 10 participants and there is a mailing list for social events after your group finishes. I'm looking forward to it.
Post D life.....hmm. Will much change for me? I'll be able to buy a property, which will be nice. I think I'm going to stay in my 'home' town for a while. I may think about dating at some point, but I'm in no rush. TBH, so much has changed for me already, I'm not looking to make further huge changes just now. I hope to stick around the forum and keep learning and growing, healing and moving forward. I don't plan to keep in touch with H particularly, though I'll stay in touch with SS and his Mum.
Have a fab weekend Jim - hope you have some nice plans xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
