I realize this all takes baby steps and that I need small goals that are attainable in order to get to the larger goals. I am in limbo here until W gets back with kids on the 30th. I can only work on myself until then but I know the SHTF when she returns and my world will be upside down again in a hurry. She will most likely want to get the lawyer ball rolling asap once she returns and before she goes back to work the following week.
M: 48 W: 45 Married: 16 years D1-14, D2-11, D3-9 BD: May 29 She moved out 2 weeks later with kids Awaiting mediation
