She won't talk to me. So how do I fix that? When I have detached she has made comments about me putting things on FB about having a good time. I told her I am moving on and I'm sorry if she doesn't like that. How do I get her to talk to me? how do we ever work anything out if we don't communicate.
You cant fix it. You cant MAKE her talk to you. Worry about you, and if she wants to talk, she will.
But why did you tell her youre moving on? Are you? It sounds like you are still committed to this relationship. Why say that you arent...?
Originally Posted By: Mavrik
Also I'm not sure about the EA anymore. I think that he likes the texting and talking but once she started talking about moving closer to him he started to back off. I have seen were he was on a motorcycle ride with another woman. I told my wife that I thought that he liked talking but when she started talking about moving he backed off because she was cramping his style. She chuckled and said you think so. I said yes because if he didn't you would have already left to be with him. She was silent. I can't make her leave because her name is on the mortgage and I be damned if I am leaving.
Why bring it up? The way I see it, every time you bring up the A, you give it more power. Just let her worry about it. Why challenge her on it?
