Painter, did you sent text before you and your H started piecing? Did he react? She must be worried as she has deactivated her FB account.
With regard to the checking, I also did not get married until I was 32, so I think it was more about maintaining a bit of independence. Clearly, it was not that important to me since I added H and he closed his checking account. The bigger point is that H never communicated how he felt untrusted until two days ago. So it is not like I refused to do it.
No, my state is no fault, so an A really has no bearing. However, I can petition for a different settlement with regard to him leaving right after his schooling.
I wonder how busy this site is going to get with the Ashley Madison data?
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015