Ugh. I just joined this forum after getting the Divorce Busting book. My wife has been on Buproprion/Wellbutrin since November and in march or so started cutting off our relationship - no holding hands, sleeping right on the far edge of the bed, etc etc. 3 months ago she said we needed to work on things, and proceeded to tell me how to change as a person to be more compatible with her. I busted my ass doing everything I could. Nothing was good enough. I went out and got a marriage-helping kit (the book was in this) and paid for some very expensive, non-refundable counseling. The day before we were to begin on our marriage improvement, she said no dice. It wasn't worth it. That was a week ago.
I have long suspected that the pills were at least partly to blame; Lauren isn't good at talking about problems but I know her very well and can tell when she has a problem. We had, for the most part, an amazing relationship.
Now she wants to sell the house and divorce. Of course the day after she made the decision we spent an evening out on the patio hanging out. It was a great time and she cried for having so much fun. Clearly she is confused, and I am at my wit's end. I want to save this, but she won't listen to me. I need to get other people involved, to tell her that maybe the drugs are messing with her because if I tell her she views it as an attack instead of opinion, idea, or advice.
