Thanks Cristy. I feel pretty hopeless right now. I think she is hellbent on the fast track to separation and once she gets back the hammer will fall. I cant really afford coaching but I think its a good idea. Any other advice? I don't want to move on. I am so used to being a great husband and dad I don't know what else to do.
Duke,
This isn't about moving on. It is about moving forward!
There is no quick fix here. It is a roller coaster and will be getting much more real when they return from vacation. Figuring out the details of day to day life with work and kids is a much different situation than vacation mode. You need to really be prepared to follow through on the strategies being recommended.
I highly recommend taking of advantage of the online special for Telephone Coaching. You are at a very fragile point in this relationship and it would be extremely helpful to know what your next move should be. Please call me to discuss our DB coaching program at 303-444-7004.
Cristy Resource Coordinator The Divorce Busting Center 303-444-7004
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