Well ... yeah my sitch was looking like doom and gloom and out of the blue W told me she did not want D, now you would assume once you hear those words you would be 'bout time lets fix this M' but at that point .. I really had to think about if I wanted that at all. This is where boundaries, and non-negotibles come into play ... you are not there yet but Retrouvaille was one of these things, and it has been extremely helpful, we have 3 Post sessions left (one this weekend). I have been moving in slowly .. but have been there almost 3 months now.
As far as Cars ... yup .. old motorhead here. Last one was a 55 F 100 351W, before that 81 Vette 350, 75 T/A 455, 69 Camaro RS 327, Gran Torino 351C ... been a car guy all my life. At BD I had just got into Rock Crawlers, I fabbed one up from a jeep that someone rolled and gave me free.... motor/trans good, shelled it out, caged it ... did the suspension, tricked out the fuel to a Screaming eagle carb set up (They do not stall at serious angles) .... thing was a beast and a blast. Had to sell it when W moved out as I could not park it on the streets, and I could not afford at the time a place with a garage. So now I got into the Harley and have some trick mods in store for that. I have worked metal most my life and have a shop at my disposal, waterjets, lasers, press brakes, welding .. all here and free ... so now and then I love to tinker.