I think we all just follow Sotto (Toots) around and agree with her, but she is so dead-on right all the time. I'm so glad you are doing IC and you seem to be really dealing with everything to take care of yourself.
Sotto is right...if you and W don't reconcile, some super lucky lady is waiting out there for you somewhere and you will both be abundantly blessed when you find each other.
Continued prayers and positive thoughts for you, my friend.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids