Your post above really rings a bell with me right now. This is something that I have been playing over and over in my heard. Am I so focused on getting my WW back that I may fail to see that the M is doomed. I agree with you that the best way to handle this is to let the M die and if romance blossoms out of an R so be it. You have done a great job of putting this into words. I needed to read this. Thank you
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."