Why is it hard sometimes to say no to W?

I slept at my mother's house. I haven't moved back in yet. W TMs me this morning telling me how she couldn't sleep last night, will be keeping the baby, and if I would do her the favor of dropping off the oldest at summer camp.

In all honesty, I was getting ready to respond with a sure, no problem. I then decided to take a few minutes, think things through. I have no problem helping out, but it seems to me that I don't get the same thoughts in return when she decides to take her "time" and "space". I felt that giving into this request, is enabling her cake eating...am I wrong there?

It just feels so bad to say no to her, and not help out. I want to be there to support and help her with everything.

Just needed to get that thought out....thank you.


M: 34 W: 33
S: 7
S: 14 months
BD: 6/2015
Separation: 6/2015
Back and Forth between Home and Moms