Ok, I understand what everyone is saying. I know I need to stop with the lets work on the marriage and I am done with that. She is talking about leaving her family 2 kids and moving out of state 500 miles away. I think that might be best because I think she will see that the grass isn't greener. She has been very conflicted about leaving. She is in depression. Comes home and straight to bed at 6:30pm with no dinner. She won't talk to me. So how do I fix that? When I have detached she has made comments about me putting things on FB about having a good time. I told her I am moving on and I'm sorry if she doesn't like that. How do I get her to talk to me? how do we ever work anything out if we don't communicate.
