I apologise in advance, I don't want to hijack the thread. I was just telling the OP about my experience and conclusions regarding well-meaning friends. Answering your question, Vanilla, I had been. I had installed a keylogger two months before that never worked. In December I had already stopped any spying. And obviously the cable story (it would have to be a 40km-long cable) was sheer whickness of the God-mother. Story here: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2560983#Post2560983
Me43 W39 M 12y,T 15y S09,S07 Bomb Jun14 Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15 Share bed Mar/May15 Reconcile Jun15 Aug15 W sais D will happen D told to kids Sept15 W moved out with kids 01 October15