In regard to your "separated" status on FB, here's something you might want to think about as Cali 2.0.
Perhaps after getting back from the vacation, you can update your FB with new photos and change your status to "married" as a natural progression of your situation. I suspect that your W will not feel pressure from that change because it happened organically.
I am rarely wrong...but I'd like to think that one would be the "right" move to make in regard to the FB status. In a way, you are taking the leadership role with saying grace and no electronic devices during dinner time. So the FB change is one more notch in your leadership hat.
