I remarked to JulieH the same sentiment as you are describing. At least as the DBing LBS we are "treating" the short-comings within ourselves that lead to the M breakdown. The WASs seem to just keep repeating in many cases. Digging their hole deeper.
I am sad for them really. We can only hope that they snap out of it before it is too late for them. This doesn't even include whether or not WE are still in the picture. Children cloud this picture enormously. I often wonder what my position would be if the kids were not in the picture. Honestly, IDK.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015