10 Months Later... XW Wants To Talk About Us?

[HPoirot]

Worse than that... I see now her proposal in April was just another crumb to get me not to move with S12 last June. Now that we are near fall and I have to arrange for school in Florida and the moving momentum increases b/c I asked for the legal agreement THAT SHE OFFERED, she throws me another crumb about "maybe 8th grade" and tries to shame me as someone who would leave his son.

This is what I'm dealing with. Yes I messed up by not just getting the legal agreement the moment she mentioned it.

I make this difficult time in her life easier by being so flexible and agreeable with my time. She simply gives me more days that she scheduled whenever something comes up for her or when S12 asks. Then she'll just come to visit him for lunch.

She knows I would spend everyday with S12 and takes advantage of that so she can do as she likes while still acting like a great mom for her friends.

I one of her latest emails she said I had the audacity to say I wanted an agreement about moving to Florida before moving ahead with 6th grade tuition. If I dare to say what I want in life, I'm audacious. If I leave town for a few days without explanation, I'd be wrong if it interrupted her plans.

It's not about S12 living away from her b/c with every crumb she offers that. It is about her convenience and people's perception of her.

Wow ranting again. Have not done this in a while.

Am I wrong to want to move on with my life in a place I want to be while offering to help STBX see S12 as much as possible?

Would I be wrong to go to court for that? Even if S12 knows that I want his mom to be with him in Florida?